I am a firm believer of love. I believe everybody deserves to love, and to be loved. I believe there is love out there for everyone.
But having faith alone is not enough to make it real. Because you can believe in something so deep in your life, but if you just sit on your faith and never go about seeking it, it will not come to you. Instead, it will stare at you from afar, wishing that you had come seeking it instead of just believing in it.
Yet there are some of us, who have faith, and who seek for love, but never finding it. There are some who found a semblance of love, and embraced it, only to realise later on that it was not what they seek in the first place. And there are some who got so misguided in the search that they embraced the darkness instead.
But can you feel love, when your heart is shrouded in darkness?
Darkness exists in the absence of light. Just as cold exists in the absence of heat. And hate. Hate exists in the absence of love.
The opposite of love is apathy, and not hate. Hate is really the same as love. If you're so consumed by hatred for someone, you might as well be loving them, because you're thinking about them for the same amount of time. So what is a love-hate relationship?
They always say that you shouldn't hate someone so deeply, because in time, your hate will turn into love. I know this girl who hated this guy so much that she once kicked him in the groin. But they are happily married now, and she has long stopped kicking him in the groin. Instead, she does something else there, to the delight of the guy.
I wish a girl would hate me so much and kick me in the groin and later marry me. But then again, maybe I should be careful of what I wish for.
Because I'm sure there are girls out there who wouldn't mind kicking me in the groin. But that's as much as I get.
Not a comforting thought, come to think of it.
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Too often, the thing you want most is the one thing you can't have. Desire leaves us heartbroken, it wears us out. Desire can wreck your life. But as tough as wanting something can be. The people who suffer the most, are those who don't know what they want.
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16 comments:
Have you tried cyberlove or registring yourself under online dating service? Just a thought. Some people gain more confidence corresponding within the cyber medium and when they feel like confident enuf to meet up, it can be arranged mutually or otherwise it'll remain in the cybersphere.
Love may come at some odd times and situations too...some are flings, crushes and some can be forever. When u feel good/great about urself, ur aura is felt and u may find ur love sooner than u think. But as a man, u get to be more thickskinned to chat up some girls, yet some of the girls do have that characteristic too.
And if u start to like a girl, dont stop till u know u no longer have any more chance left. Perseverance pays u know. And it gets better if u r well off and with a certain status quo. Buruk2 anak org kaya or politician or some manager/CEO, ade gak woman kejar.
Love is light that surely glows in the hearts of those who knows. It's a steady flame that grows.
Tiba2 terasa like sharing lines from Celine and Barbra duet, Tell Him :)
when you find love... all the darkness in your heart will disappear... for good.
cinta itu memerlukan pengorbanan
bukan hanya keyakinan membuta
cinta itu memerlukan kerjasama
bertepuk sebelah tangan itu penampar namanya
Ardy, ardy, ardy .... You are so funny! How can there be no girls for someone with your sense of humor?! Mesti ada punya.
My firasat tells me, it could be someone who like to read (your written nonsense especially!) - one who seeks an intellectual sparring partner as her soul mate.
So go hang out at mph, borders, make some new acquintances from readers' circle, or network of friends yang suka membaca. Don't start with meeting face to face too soon. Just write & write & write to each other. Who knows.... Later, hook, line & sinker - baru jumpa. I'm usually not far off with my firasat you know? Separa trained in psychology. hehe.
Free advice ni ... U r so privileged to have this piece of advice ( HAHAHA) before I become famous like Oprah!
p/s Ryzah... gelak lah!!! Agak3 boleh menang debate lagi tak cam ni!
Ibu,
hehe.. tengah gelak ni (sambil terbayang the debaters reunion during 3s dinner tu!) ;)
Yes, Ardy is one bookworm and selalu duduk kat MPH for hours. But he would normally get too absorbed in his books that he hardly look around for new acquaintances in the bookshop. Emmm... but on second thought, he does ogle!
Ardy, maybe I should spend some time in MPH with you. Do they have porn there?
enuff of love ardyyyyyyy..!!!
arghhhh..(emo tetiba..!!)
LOL! Your entry are both humourous and sad at the same time.
Yeah, maybe face to face doesnt work for you. U need to make a woman fall in love with your wit and humour first...so maybe meeting someone online isnt such a bad idea..thats whre I met my husb and my other 2 exes.
I chatted with them for quite sometime then only decided to meet up. Before i met up with them i had already fallen in love with their charm and personality. It was truly love at first sight when i saw each one of them for the first time. Nak kata i ni hot chick mmg tipu ah but sometimes beauty is only skin deep. I'm glad they saw beyond that.
So Ardy, dont give up. There is hope for you.
Manal,
Too bad I'm not rich, nor do I have an attractive face. But having a lot of money definitely helps.
AM,
How true. Some people can even live just with love.
Zewt,
Love can do that eh? Somehow, I do believe so.
dibawahaspal,
Heh. Nicely put.
Ibu,
Heheh. I guess sense of humour is the last thing on a girl's list on what to look in a man. Nevertheless, I will start to pay attention to the oppposite sex during my next visit to the bookstore.
Hazyr,
I guess I'm oogling the wrong anatomy!
Seademon,
You do not need porn there. All you need is me ;)
Aphroditekuzz,
Ahh, you sounded like you could use a good hug (and a lil' loving)
Cosmic_gurl,
Heheh. Thanks. Beauty is indeed skin deep, but that doesn't mean you're not a hot chick ;)
Okay, let's see....where else can Ardy hang out to meet hot girls.
Near MNG boutique. (if u like sexy, rugged chics)
Inside Vincci stores. (if u like the crazy-for-affordable-shoes chics)
At the gym. (if you prefer the fitness conscious chics. Heh, you can have a peek at their abs while you're there!)
University Libraries (the best place for you, I think. Hihihi)
DNAS,
I don't think university libraries are a good place to look for hot girls, since the girls in there are either very young, or only interested in acing their next exams. The gym is not a bad idea, only problem is there are always better looking men with nice body roaming around creating competition for me!
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